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Psalm 37:1-3  Do not fret because of evildoers, nor be envious of the workers of iniquity. For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither as the green herb. Trust in the Lord, and do good; dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness. 

 

The hardest thing is to forgive someone who has violated you whether it’s mental or physical abuse. Our hearts tend to harden and we as saints forget what the Lord has said to us concerning those who wrong us. But this is also a time of trust and faith. We are put to the test to see if we can really walk by faith and not by sight. God wants us to turn to Him in our time of trouble and confusion. He said He would never leave us nor forsake us. All we have to do is ask and it shall be given to us, seek and we shall find, knock and the door will be opened.

 

It took me years to forgive the four rapist and three molesters that invaded my life; it took getting saved, set free and delivered to forgive them. Only God can do this, not you, not man, but God. I don’t care how many programs you go to, how many therapists you see, how many support groups you join, its not the answer. In order to be healed from this cruel circumstance, it takes power and authority from the almighty God. The feelings, emotions and scars are buried so deep only God has the power to deliver you. We as humans tend to block things out, push them aside and because we bury them, we think we’re delivered. We think because we talk about it with folks who went to college for that particular degree, all is well. Not so! Let something happen to trigger your memory of the event you went through. See it on the news, in the newspapers, etc and see what happens to you emotionally. But when God heals and delivers you, its as if nothing has ever happen to you. You feel for those that endure it, but it does not affect you to the point of you breaking down, crying, falling out, passing out, becoming angry, mad, etc. Yes, because its sin, you become angry with the enemy, but you don’t re-live it to the point of falling apart. You can talk about it and even sometimes laugh about it. People will think you’re crazy because the experience is so traumatic. Only God can do that,  that’s how amazing He is. So I urge you, as a matter of fact, I dare you to let go of the worldly cures and let GOD heal and deliver you. First, forgive yourself then forgive the one who brought harm against you.  Watch God and see what happens. I promise you your attacker will surely reap what they sowed. Pray for them and let God work it out. Remember: Whatever you went through in life is your MINISTRY, and your ministry is not for you, it’s for someone ELSE…

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